Happiness is the ultimate goal of all of us. But we know that the road to it is bumpy and worse, such roads are many and their purpose is uncertain. We would also to be in the company on this road. The key is that everything in the journey to happiness depends on us.
Fight with problems
Following the paths of life we will accumulate a lot of experience, knowledge and ordinary memories. They will stay with us forever and we should use them wisely. First of all, we should use what we have for inner peace. Temporary pleasure and joy are important but they can not dim our balance, without which one can not build a happy life and face the problems. Being happy will largely be the result of our ability to deal with adversities and overcome problems. Problems will come up but we can either overcome them or go deeper into them. Negative thoughts will lead to avalanche of major and minor misfortunes. From bad experiences could be drawn positive conclusions for the future and all worries can become a basis for practical optimism.
In life very important is self-fulfilling prophecies, our assumptions which work well because we believe in their realization. You have to try to always they are good prophecies. Particular importance in this regard is the rejection of all failures as a pattern in which we have to be stuck. Every failure is an opportunity for learning and personal development, working out better schemes.
Details and important things
On the way to happiness is very easy to confuse important things with the void. There is a conviction that people are important and things are not important. It’s not that easy. We should surround ourselves with what gives us happiness, joy and what enriches our lives. Sometimes it will also be something that will be more valuable than some people. Usually more means better, because happiness likes to multiply but you also need to keep moderation. Small things can be more valuable than big ones. A great value is a simple smile.
In this all you have to be careful with the routine. If we do not do something new regularly, we do not take on the challenge, we will wake up in rigid schemes that do not give us anything and when we pull out, we will have to demolish some of our positive environment.